Thank you Allah,

Ya Rabbi, ku panjatkan sepenuh-penuh syukur diatas nikmat yang Kau berikan pada hambaMu ini, sesungguhnya Kau tidak pernah menolak doa-doa & permintaan ku.

Ya Allah keajaiban yang ku terima setelah menempuh selama 7 tahun pembelajaran di OUM seakan-akan keputusan lulus yang tidak dapat kupercayai. Final exam untuk paper yang sangat susah ku rasakan akhirnya dapat lepas juga..walaupun cuma nyawa2 ikan. Alhamdulillah. Sebenarnya hanya itu saja yang kuharapkan, hanya untuk lulus & lepas dari kehidupan mengejar ilmu dunia. Wallahi i will never involve myself in seeking ilmu dunia anymore, kecuali kursus-kursus yang tak berbayar.

Doaku Kau makbulkan ya Allah. sesungguhnya Kau masih mengasihani hambaMu ini yang kadang-kadang leka dengan urusan dunia dan dosa. Astagfirullahilazim.

Ya Allah, ku mohon padaMu agar tetapkan iman ku dan terus Istiqamah menunaikan tanggungjawab sebagai hambaMu. Ku mohon HidayahMu berterusan padaku Ya Rabb, semoga dengan segulung ijazah ini tidak membuatku sombong, malahan menjadikan diriku rendah diri kerana kumalu kapadaMu Ya Allah..tanpa redhaMu ini semua takkan menjadi kenyataan.

Ku mengharapkan selama perjalanan 7 tahun yang lepas dapat berbaloi dalam menempuh sisa-sisa hidup ini yang akan menghampiri umurku yang ke 48 tahun. MashaAllah, umurku yang menjangkau begini dan masih lagi lalai dengan kehidupan. AllahuRabbi bantulah aku agar dapat meneruskan penghidupan ini dengan keikhlasan hati dengan niat & kalimat LailahaIlallah,,hanya KeranaMu Ya Allah, Aamin ya rabbal aalamin.

Berubat dengan Sholat

"Wahai orang yang beriman, jadikanlah sabar dan solat sebagai penolongmu" (Surah Al Baqarah: Ayat 153)
Penyakit Hati:
Penyakit hati terbahagi kepada 2 iaitu penyakit subhat (ragu-ragu) dan syahwat.
Dijelaskan Allah dalam surah Al Ahzab, ayat 32,
Mengenai penyakit Subhat Allah berfirman:
" Dalam hati manusia ada penyakit, lalu ditambah Allah penyakitnya..
Surah Al Baqarah ayat 10, dan penyakit syahwat, Allah berkata, "Wahai isteri-isteri Nabi, kamu sekalian tidaklah seperti wanita yang lain, jika kamu bertakwa maka janganlah kamu tunduk dalam berbicara berkeinginanlah orang yang ada penyakit dalam hatinya..
Antara penyakit hati adalah iri hati, ghibah, riyak, sombong, menyebarkan fitnah, berkata kesat dan sebagainya.
Manakala penyakit kedua ialah penyakit jasmani.
Allah berfirman:
"Tidak ada halangan bagi orang buta, tidak pula bagi orang tempang, tidak pula bagi orang sakit..
(Surah An-Nur, ayat 61)

"Jika Allah menghendaki kebaikan kepada seseorang maka dia kan memberinya ujian" (Bukhari)
"Sungguh menakjubkan keadaan sorang yang beriman, semua urusannya adalah baik. Jika mendapat kebahgiaan ia bersyukur, maka sukur itu menjadi kebaikan baginya. Demikian pula, apabila ditimpa kesusahan ia bersabar, maka sabarnya menjadi kebahagiaan baginya. (Muslimin)
"Sesungguhnya Aku menurunkan penyakit dan ubat serta menjadikan setiap penyakit ada ubat serta menjadikan setiap penyakit ada ubatnya. Maka berubatlah kamu semua dan janganlah berubat dengan benda yang haram" (Abu Daud)
" Tidak ada yang menghindari qadak (ketetapan Allah) kecuali doa dan tidak boleh menambah umur kecuali kebaikan. (Tirmidzi)

"Ya Allah, selamatkan tubuhku dari daripada penyakit dan yang tidak aku inginkan, Ya Allah selamatkan pendengaranku daripada penyakit dan maksiat atau perkara yang tidak aku inginkan.  Ya Allah, selamatkan penglihatanku" (Abu Daud)

Antara cara-cara penyembuhan adalah berserah kepada Allah, berdoa bersunguh-sungguh, ruqya syariyya, solat waktu malam, sedekah, minim madu, habbatus sauda' dan air zam-zam serta ubat-ubatan moden.

The Forgotten Blessing: Giving Your Parents the Proper Treatment They Deserve

“Ali, please come downstairs and eat”, calls Haleema, his mother, for the third time. “In a minute MUM, I’m busy, you’re so difficult.. gosh.. just leave me alone!” followed with a loud slam of the door.
How many of us are guilty of this? It may not be the exact same words, but in some way we have all disrespected our parents, which they certainly do not deserve. Today’s youth have lost respect for their parents who worked so hard to raise them. It has become the “norm” to scream at our mothers. We make derogatory remarks and sometimes pretend like we cannot hear what they’re saying.
Just take a second to step back and reflect: the one who taught you how to walk, eat, speak – you consciously CHOOSE to ignore her?
Yet a mother’s unconditional love is like no other. No matter what her daughter or son says, she will call again. Do you know why? Not because she’s your enemy and out to “get you” or because she’s purposely trying to annoy you. It’s because she genuinely cares. She cares a whole lot, more than anyone will ever care.
When you were younger, she went hungry so you could have a full stomach. She didn’t buy anything for herself so she could spend on your toys, just to see you smile. She nursed you when you were ill, she took every blame for you to hide your faults. So why do you suddenly act like YOU are doing HER a favour by just standing in her existence? Seriously, are you for real?

Paradise is at the Feet of Mothers

You should instead be treating her like a queen and “kiss the very ground she walks on” for all the favours she’s done for you.
Subhan Allah – I don’t want to sugarcoat the reality because I’ve seen this happen with my own eyes, so don’t take offence to what I say. Unfortunately the truth is more bitter than it’s ever been. I’ve witnessed it – the endless worry and care of mothers for their children and the children’s utter disrespect and disregard for their mothers because, “It’s different now!” and “Ugh, you’ll never understand me”.
Why? Because they were never young so they obviously won’t “get you”?
This injustice is done not only to mothers but fathers too. Sometimes children become so arrogant and enveloped in their selfishness that when their parents speak to them in their native language they cleverly reply with English slang terms in attempt to humiliate their parents. I ask you today to contemplate on this. With the high status Allah (glorified and exalted be He) has given to our parents, do we even pay them an ounce of the value they are worthy of?

Here’s What You Need to Stop Doing

1. Stop raising your voice
   “Say not to them [so much as], ‘uff,’” [Qur'an: Chapter 17, Verse 23]. What a profound statement from the Qur’an. We should not even sigh heavily, let alone raise our voices. When your parents raise their voice at you, 9 out of 10 times they have a very good reason to do so. Don’t let shaytan fuel your anger and ego, causing you to react totally inappropriately. Stop, listen, agree and apologise – thereafter rectify your mistake, even if you think you’re right and they’re being unjust.
2. Stop ignoring them
   So you’re out with your friends and suddenly you see a call from “Home”. Automatically you dismiss the call. Why? Don’t want to disturb the good time you’re having with your friends, or are you embarrassed to speak to your mum and dad?Remember when you were five years old, and you decided to throw a tantrum in the middle of a supermarket? Don’t you think you embarrassed your mum then? She didn’t decide to abandon you, did she? Because at the end of the day, you’re her child and no matter what you do, she will never ever be embarrassed of you. You owe a hell of a lot to your parents.So pick up that call, and politely answer their questions. Better yet, call them a few times while you’re out. It won’t kill you – you have countless minutes to spend on your friends. So spare a few minutes on your parents and spare them imagining all sorts of horrific scenarios in their minds when you don’t pick up!
3. Stop thinking you’re always right
   This, for me, is one of the most loathed characteristics. Think about it logically – how much worldly experience do your parents have compared to you? Making sense yet? When discussing things with parents, remember never to reject their opinions. Believe it or not, they were young once and also made mistakes, probably the same mistake you’re about to make now, which is why they are advising against it.As the Romanian proverb goes, “Only the foolish learn from experience; the wise learn from the experience of others.” So take advantage of their knowledge, experience and wisdom that you haven’t developed yet. So next time, instead of rolling your eyes and saying, “Yeah yeah, whatever”, listen – really listen. Take it in and act upon it. You can thank them in the process too.

Here’s What You Need to Start Doing

1. Start showing some gratitude
   This follows on from my last point. It won’t harm you to express a word of gratitude once in a while. After all, they did clean your nappies. Parents have “bad” days too, they’re human too. And they need someone to brighten up their day at times. So be that ray of light at the end of a long day. Say “thank you”, make them smile, hug them, buy them a gift.Do this randomly and they’ll be so pleasantly surprised that the smile you put on their face won’t disappear for a long time. It’s not easy being a parent, and sometimes you think you’ve done it all wrong. By expressing some love, they’ll be reassured that they must have done something right for you to behave in such a way.
2. Start going out of your way to please them
   If anyone on earth deserves this, it’s them. Not your friends or even your spouse, it’s your parents. Allah (glorified and exalted be He) has granted them such a high position; how can you treat them any less? Offer to help out in any way possible. Do extra tasks, massage their feet, drive them around whenever they need, help with the cooking, anything and everything which you would never do for anyone else and have to make an extra effort to do – DO IT.
3. Start making sincere dua for them
   Every child knows that their parents mention them in every dua. Your parents wish nothing but well for you. They pray for your success. It’s time for you to replicate the favour. Pray for their wellbeing, pray for their forgiveness, pray for Jannah for them, and most importantly thank Allah (glorified and exalted be He) for them. Make this a habit in every salah. Before you mention yourself, mention them.

Make Your Parents Proud

Evidently these points are general and there are loads more that could be mentioned, but I’ve just listed the things I have personally observed to be an issue. At the end of the day, pleasing your parents will please Allah (glorified and exalted be He), there is no one on earth who deserves your mercy and compassion more than your parents.
Do them proud. If they’re happy, you’ll also be happy, and by treating them well you increase your good deeds. Lastly, never ever disrespect them. On that note, I leave you with this verse from the Qur’an:
“And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], ‘uff,’ [i.e., an expression of irritation or disapproval] and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, ‘My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.’” [Qur'an: Chapter 17, Verses 23-24]
May Allah (glorified and exalted be He) allow us to be kind, compassionate and caring towards our parents and earn their love, not their anger.
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Assalamu'alaikum Noridah,

Last week we spoke about the importance of having lists, deciding on what to tackle on that list, and then taking action.

The common response I get to these tips are: "Yeah, that's great if you're working on your own and no one's there to disturb you. How are you supposed to be productive when you have people constantly coming to talk to you, your phone never stops ringing and your boss calls you over every 30 minutes to give you a new task?!"

It's true that - sadly - the modern office environment has become a minefield of distractions! You simply can't shut yourself away from it completely. However, there are a few techniques to help you. Here are some:

1. Be an early riser: If you're able to get to work early, this could be your best time to get quality work done and get ahead of the game before distractions start pouring in and derail you from your work. Of course, you have to be disciplined with yourself and not waste these early hours checking e-mails or surfing the net; make them truly productive hours.

2. Stop ALL *optional* notifications: There are some notifications that you can't turn off (e.g., your office ringing, or your boss calling you!). However, there are a lot of optional notifications that you can turn off, e.g., alerts from your mobile phone, notifications on your desktop computer, etc. Turn these off! They'll reduce the urge for you to stop your work and go check the latest e-mail. Which reminds me...

3. Don't check e-mail ALL the time: The world won't stop if you don't check your e-mails. Trust me. I tried it. Things will move on. So don't be obsessed about checking your latest e-mails every 5 minutes. Check e-mails at certain reasonable intervals (e.g., every hour or 2 hours, etc.).

4. Ask your colleagues/boss for some quiet time: Sometimes simply asking your colleagues/boss to leave you alone a bit to focus on an important piece of work can work. You'll never know till you ask. Make it a regular habit (every morning from 8am - 10am, you'll be working on a particular project and need your colleagues/boss to understand to give you some quiet time to get the work done).

5. Work in Pomodoro sessions: I've spoken about Pomodoro technique before, the technique where you work on a single task for 25 minutes then take 5 minutes break. You can use this at work as well. During those 25 minutes, you can close your door (if you have an office) or put up a sign saying you're busy for 25 minutes, close all notifications, unplug the phone if you have to and simply sit down and get work done.

A lot of times we tend to invite the distractions in our lives without us knowing, then we blame everyone when we're not focussed or when we're distracted. It's time that you take ownership of your focus and career and not let the distractions around you stop you from being productive.

Sincerely,
Abu Productive

7 tips for an amazing wudoo!

Is wudoo for you just a quick wash before prayer? Then it’s time to learn about the amazing benefits of this productivity booster in this life and the next. Let’s find out how you can perform your next wudoo with a deep love insha’Allah!
Allah ‘azza wajal says in this week’s central ayah, which has a tremendous influence on our life multiple times a day: O you who believe! when you prepare for prayer, wash your faces, and your hands (and arms) to the elbows, rub your heads (with water) and (wash) your feet to the ankles..(Quran, 5:6)

Here’s a selection of 7 benefits of making wudoo linked to being more productive:

Do wudoo:
For forgiveness.
Sins weigh you down. They make your heart feel heavy and press your spiritual productivity. Doing wudoo is an ultimate way for forgiveness so your spiritual productivity increases again! The Prophet salallahu’ alayhi wa sallam said: When a Muslim servant or a believer washes his face (in the course of wudoo) every sin he has committed with his eyes is washed away from his face along with the water, or with the last drop of water; when he washes his hands, every sin they wrought is erased from his hands with the water, or with the last drop of water; and when he washes his feet, every sin towards which his feet walked is washed away with water, or with the last drop of water, with the result that he comes out cleansed of all sins.[Muslim] Action: pay attention to every single step of your wudoo and do not rush or neglect any body part by reminding yourself of this immense reward!
To have a blessed sleep.
Imagine an angel staying very close to you all night long and not only that, imagine that angel begging Allah ‘azza wajal to forgive you! This is what happens when you make wudoo before you go to sleep, what a blessing. You can even sleep in a productive way. The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: Purify these bodies and Allah will purify you. Whenever a slave sleeps in a state of purification, an angel sleeps within his hair and he does not turn over during the night except that he [the angel] says: ‘O Allah, forgive Your slave, for he went to sleep purified. [Tabarani] Action: Next time when you feel tired or sleepy, push yourself by thinking about this hadith!
For anger management.
Anger is one of the true productivity-killers, how many decisions you made in a moment of anger were good for you? Saying things in anger is one of the reasons many friendships and even marriages get damaged, there was a reason the sahaaba would fear their own tongues. Doing wudoo is a very underestimated weapon from the sunnah. The Prophet salallah ‘alayhi wa sallam said: Anger comes from the devil, the devil was created of fire, and fire is extinguished only with water; so when one of you becomes angry, he should perform ablution. [Sunan Abu Dawood] Action: We all know we should, but who of us really makes wudoo when we are angry. At least try it once next time and see the difference!
For radiance.
Do you know how your beloved Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam will be able to recognize you as being one of his followers on the Day of Judgement? The Prophet said: On the Day of Resurrection, my followers will be called “Al-Ghurr-ul-Muhajjalun” from the trace of ablution and whoever can increase the area of his radiance should do so (by performing ablution regularly). [Al-Bukharee] Action: do your wudoo properly and increase the times you do wudoo!
To elevate your ranks in Paradise.
The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: Shall I not tell you something by which Allah effaces the sins and elevates ranks?” The Companions said; “Certainly, O Messenger of Allah.” He said, “Performing the wudoo thoroughly in spite of difficult circumstances..[Muslim] Action: So next time when it is very cold, remember this enormous reward for that little bit of hardship.
To have your past sins forgiven.
There is a beautiful sunnah many of us have forgotten. Let’s revive it and earn lots of hasanaat (rewards) insha’Allah! The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: If anyone performs ablution like that of mine and offers a two-rak’at prayer during which he does not think of anything else then his past sins will be forgiven.[ Al-Bukharee] Action: pray two voluntary rakaat after your wudoo and inspire others to!
For Allah subhanahu wa ta’alaa alone.
Your intention of doing wudoo is very important (however, you don’t have to pronounce your intention out loud). Many people say my intention to do wudoo is for prayer, your intention is to do wudoo to please Allah ‘azza wajal.
Action: according to the sunnah, say bismillaah (In the Name of Allah) before wudoo.
Know that wudoo is an act of worship and we can not take away or change anything about the way an act of worship is done. The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam did not make any dua’s (supplications) during the wudoo.
To purify yourself with less!
Let’s be honest; how much water do you use (or actually waste) while doing wudoo? Anas radiyallahu ‘anhu said: The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam used to make wudoo with a mudd of water..[Muslim and others] A mudd is approx the amount of water which is held by the two hands cupped together!
Action: use a bowl to do wudoo from instead of a running tap!
Homework:
For a productive wudoo memorize and reflect (!) upon these two sunnah supplications to say after wudoo:
Ash-hadu an laa illaa illaa-llaahu wahdahu laa shareeka lah wa ash-hadu anna muhammadan ‘abduhu wa rasooluh.
I bear witness that (there is) no god except Allah. He is alone; there is no partner to Him. And I bear witness that Muhammad (is) His slave and Messenger.
Reflection point: Recite this keeping in mind the dangerous consuqences of shirk. Allah made us and we are for Him. He owns us and everything else. We are all slaves of Allah and should live like a true slaves.
Allahumma aj’alnee minat-tawwaabeen waj’alnee minal mutatah-hireen.
O Allah! Make me from among those who repent and make me from among those who purify themselves.
Reflection point: We humans commit mistakes again and aigain, We don’t do many things that we are supposed to do and if we do them, we don’t do them properly. Therefore we need to repent again and again. O Allah! Make us pure in our beliefs, thoughts, body, clothes and places!
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Praying you will benefit,
Khawlah bint Yahya ~ United Kingdom
As a reminder:
Narrated ‘Ata’ bin Yasar: Ibn ‘Abbas performed ablution and washed his face (in the following way): He ladled out a handful of water, rinsed his mouth and washed his nose with it by putting in water and then blowing it out. He then, took another handful (of water) and did like this (gesturing) joining both hands, and washed his face, took another handful of water and washed his right forearm. He again took another handful of water and washed his left forearm, and passed wet hands over his head and took another handful of water and poured it over his right foot (up to his ankles) and washed it thoroughly and similarly took another handful of water and washed thoroughly his left foot (up to the ankles) and said, “I saw Allah’s Apostle performing ablution in this way.” [Saheeh Al-Bukharee]

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Danish blasphemer burns to death

By Hassan Sinan on March 7, 2010 | From uwillreadnews.blogspot.com

In an investigative report, an Arabic newspaper, published from Saudi Arabia, has claimed that Kurt Westergaard, Danish cartoonist, has died in a fire incident.

*Update: International press has not confirmed this report.

KURT WESTERGAARD From Wikipedia.org
Kurt Westergaard is a Danish cartoonist who created the controversial cartoon of the Islamic prophet Muhammad wearing a bomb in his turban. This cartoon was the most contentious of the 12 Jyllands-Posten Muhammad cartoons, which met with strong and sometimes violent reactions from Muslims worldwide. Since the drawing of the cartoon, Westergaard has received several death threats and murder attempts.

There have been several rumors of his death, but none have been confirmed by international press. The Danish authorities are trying their best to hide his death, who have found no clue about how the fire broke out and why only the room in which blasphemer Kurt was staying had been damaged. The initial investigation shows that the cartoonist, who committed blasphemy by drawing objectionable caricatures of Prophet (Peace be Upon Him), was provided complete security, as he had received many threats from across the globe after the Muslims had been enraged due to the repeated publication of the caricatures in the European press.

 Kurt Westergaard created a controversial cartoon depicting the prophet Muhammad wearing a bomb in his turbanIn February 2008, three Arab nationals were arrested for their alleged involvement in plotting the death of Kurt. A Somali man had also tried to stab him to death but the policemen deputed at his house saved him miraculously.

It is worth recalling that the blasphemous cartoons first appeared in Danish newspaper Jyllands-Posten.

The investigative report says the incident took place some days back in which Westergaard was burnt seriously and died on the spot, but the international media is completely silent about it. The report further claims that some eyewitnesses are also available to testify the happenings. The Danish authorities have so far been unable to find any hint about the cause of fire, as they had started investigations while keeping in mind some external conspiracy to kill the blasphemer.

According to the BBC, a total of twelve persons were involved in the blasphemous act, but all of them, except Kurt, had opted to go underground to escape the public wrath after the Muslims around the world had participated in protest rallies which were attended by millions of people. People in Pakistan had also joined their brethren like those in Indonesia, Bangladesh, India and many Arab countries to register protest against the conspiracy to malign Muslims and their religion. In Lahore and Peshawar, the demonstrators had turned violent and around six persons were killed during the course, while property worth million of rupees was reduced to ashes.

But instead of expressing any remorse, Westergaard went public on many occasions saying he had no regret for committing such a shameful act.

The Saudi newspaper says the death of Kurt shows how powerful Allah Almighty is, as despite the foolproof security arrangements, none was able to save him from his tragic end.